I gave my dad homemade cinnamon rolls for Christmas because I’m a kind and loving daughter.
And because I’m amazing and can do All of the Things at Christmas time!
And maybe a teeny tiny bit because I let my kids eat the cinnamon rolls I gave my dad for Father’s Day.
All of them.
As in, I let my kids eat every single cinnamon roll I gave my dad for Father’s Day, and my dad didn’t get any.
In my defense, though, my dad’s been to my house and has watched the cloud of locusts descend, like, hundreds of times, so he should know to eat things quickly before they’re consumed by the insatiable swarms.
Still, my dad’s been extra pathetic for the past 6 months about the rolls, so, in a fit of Christmas weakness, I became a cinnamon roll enabler.
Also, I lied when I said I can do All of the Things at Christmas time.
I lied and lied and lied, and I was a lying liar who lies.
Because I can’t do All of the Things at Christmas time.
Or All of the Things any of the time.
I can’t do even do Most of the Things most of the time.
I can do SOME of the Things some of the time, though!
Except when I quit and lay down underneath my table and do None of the Things. So I do None of the Things some of the time, too.
Unless feeling guilty for not doing Any of the Things counts as a thing. In that case, I rarely do None of the Things, but I often do One of the Things, and I do that thing really well.
We found out yesterday that we’ve got a kid having surgery this Friday. He needs his eardrums repaired and his tonsils removed, and it’s Winter Break so WHEEEEEE! Off we go! But I was struck by the fact that the Things I’ve Done for Christmas at this point will have to be Enough of the Things. Because I can’t do Any More of the Things. I just… can’t.
I wrote my friend Mary Beth last night after I found out about the surgery. Mary Beth’s a mama who Has Mama Experience, like me, and I thought she might Get It, so I wrote about the day, and I wrote about the stress, and I confessed that this week may slay me, but then I said, “You know what’s nice about being a more experienced mama, Mary Beth? Knowing that there’s truly VERY little my kids need to have a happy Christmas. Main ingredients: sporadically attentive parents, one gift they really love, too much sugar, mass chaos, Baby Jesus and full stockings. Beyond that? Meh. Who cares?”
And then Mary Beth wrote back and said,
Kids are good.
All you really have to do to raise them well is:
2.) Just breathe, and time will carry you across.
And I thought YES! And THAT’S IT, EXACTLY. Because we humans raising other humans must do everything – we must – but we also learn, eventually, to just breathe and that time will carry us across. Both/And. Both Everything and Just Breathing.
As soon as I finished Mary Beth’s email, I went to my less-than-pristine bathroom where I saw the message my eldest wrote on my mirror in my very best lip liner last Mother’s Day. Yes, before the Great Father’s Day Cinnamon Roll Caper. And yes, 7 months ago, in which time I haven’t cleaned my mirror.
Abby wrote, “Happy Mother’s Day! I love you.”
Which seems like a Very Important Reminder this Christmas week. As we rush and fret and do All of the Things. Or Some of the Things. Or One of the Things. Or Just Breathe.
It’s enough, friends.
Whether the Things get done or don’t.
So, from our family to yours, Merry Christmas Eve and Happy Mother’s Day and Happy Father’s Day and everything in between. Here’s wishing you breath and air and life and time,
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